Commenting to Mistress X
3/30/2005
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That first comment under "Going Public" is from Mistress X. To avoid spoofing, please do not take any comment that claims to be from one of the Mistresses as real unless you see me validate it in a main article.
I understand the secretive nature of this fetish, and this blog is set up so that you can comment anonymously. If comments are abused I'll have to change it, but that would lock out folks I'd like to keep in. FYI: Blogger allows me (the blog owner) to delete a comment, but I cannot edit it.
Every entry in this blog will have something hypnotic in it, there will be no admin only entries, so . . .
I cannot describe how hard it was for me not to respond to that comment by Mistress X. I do want what she has to offer, so I " MUST.... NOW comment in this blog" even though I already have what she has to offer. I know she didn't mean me but yikes that is hard for me to resist as she is after all my Mistress.
Hmm, I can think of this as a comment. Whew, I feel better.
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I had no idea that Mistress X was this close to becoming more public. Her reaching out to the one who is hurting was as far as we were thinking this would go. Good for her, and good for the collective us.
The core thing is telling her (and Mistress B and Mistress N, "the perfect mysterious female hypnotist") what it is you want. She was actually being a bit playful in how she phrased her comment, but the request is real. Are there others like me, and what would they want?
The question is real. I am very sure that X and B have never done this before, and am pretty sure N has never done it. I am the first for each of them. (Boy, I am lucky!). You have or can see my feelings about the meanness in BDSM (see What I am Not, The Dark Side of Dominance, BDSM or other, and BDSM, No Thanks). Is there a need or demand from guys like me, who want to be hypnotized, controlled, surrendered and let an attractive female drive for a while without crossing into the dark side? The answers given here may well decide if they keep this gift basically private or if they make it more widely available. If they think they can supply what you want and think it will help those like me, they may emerge. If there is no demand, or if the demands are too far from their capabilities, then I think it would be unlikely that they emerge.
By the way, when informed of the new readers of this blog, Mistress N said "COOL".
I understand the secretive nature of this fetish, and this blog is set up so that you can comment anonymously. If comments are abused I'll have to change it, but that would lock out folks I'd like to keep in. FYI: Blogger allows me (the blog owner) to delete a comment, but I cannot edit it.
Every entry in this blog will have something hypnotic in it, there will be no admin only entries, so . . .
I cannot describe how hard it was for me not to respond to that comment by Mistress X. I do want what she has to offer, so I " MUST.... NOW comment in this blog" even though I already have what she has to offer. I know she didn't mean me but yikes that is hard for me to resist as she is after all my Mistress.
Hmm, I can think of this as a comment. Whew, I feel better.
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I had no idea that Mistress X was this close to becoming more public. Her reaching out to the one who is hurting was as far as we were thinking this would go. Good for her, and good for the collective us.
The core thing is telling her (and Mistress B and Mistress N, "the perfect mysterious female hypnotist") what it is you want. She was actually being a bit playful in how she phrased her comment, but the request is real. Are there others like me, and what would they want?
The question is real. I am very sure that X and B have never done this before, and am pretty sure N has never done it. I am the first for each of them. (Boy, I am lucky!). You have or can see my feelings about the meanness in BDSM (see What I am Not, The Dark Side of Dominance, BDSM or other, and BDSM, No Thanks). Is there a need or demand from guys like me, who want to be hypnotized, controlled, surrendered and let an attractive female drive for a while without crossing into the dark side? The answers given here may well decide if they keep this gift basically private or if they make it more widely available. If they think they can supply what you want and think it will help those like me, they may emerge. If there is no demand, or if the demands are too far from their capabilities, then I think it would be unlikely that they emerge.
By the way, when informed of the new readers of this blog, Mistress N said "COOL".
4 Comments:
What a fascinating blog !
I basically took yesterday out to read it.
I also have a fetish to be hypnotised by females, and without any BDSM/abuse.
Unfortunately (?) in my case there is also an erotic element to it.
I say, unfortunately, because this has discouraged me from contacting hypnotists.
I became aroused reading the blog yesterday.
Assuming the writer was straight, I woder how happy he would be for a male hypnotist to be in control ?
I have been aware of my fetish for over 40 years, thinking myself to be somewhat unique.
It is only within the last year or so I discovered that there is a hypnotic domination community out there.
Whether this blog will be instrmental in finding help for me remains to be seen.
Probably I will continue to lurk, not trusting the online community and reluctant to contact local professional hypnotists.
The blog writers efforts must be praised.
He's very lucky to have found the inspired hypnotists/mistresses that he has.
Keep up the good work.
e
Dear e, Mistress X here. I am so glad that you are enjoying this blog. Isn't the writer terrific and prolific?
I can not speak for the other Mistresses, but for myself, having an erotic element is fine as long as you keep it to yourself. I, personally, would be uncomfortable knowing your experience on an erotic level, but that's just me.
Clearly, all of this has erotic underpinnings, yet we keep that aspect of it on the downlow (and it does not get spoken of except for in the vaguest of terms).
If you can do that, we may be a good fit. If not, then on with the search!
Mistress X
I share a lot of the same feelings as the blogger as well. And, like him, I don't find myself interested in submission for cruelty, feminization, blackmail, or financial domination (as described in What I am not). Unfortunately that seemed to be all that was available until I read this blog.
This entry says that X is wondering if there are others like you; I didn't know there were *any* like her.
-Chris
Thanks for commenting Chris. The funny thing is, now that I have found X, I find that they are many who could be like her (but none will surpass her in my book). By some amazing chain, I'm awash in these neat ladies.
Readers, you can help me cause there to be others like Mistresses X, B, and N available. Follow my suggestion in that Yahoo group and write up what it is like to live with this suppressed fetish. I know the feeling of this monkey on my back, and I know the relief of getting it off. Describe how having this fetish has affected you, how it has made you feel, how it has impacted your life, how it is to hide it, if you have been rejected because of it, complications it may cause. Describe it in that Yahoo group, describe it in a comment here, or email it to me if you are comfortable doing so. I now have connections in the hypno community and many are starting to read this blog. Maybe I can get these stories known where they can let kind hearted ladies see that they can help. Most “Light Workers” are wanting to help, they don’t get into this business for the money. If we show them that they can help and not put themselves at risk and that it does not mean crossing into the dark side, they may be lots of them.
Besides, I bet that we are as a group a lot more fun for them than yet another person in for weight loss.