Calling Somebody Mistress
3/31/2005
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I cannot refer to the moderator of that fdhypnovideo Yahoo group by the name she has chosen, and something seemed not quite right to me about X identifying herself as Mistress X in her comment.
Before I can call somebody "Mistress" two conditions have to be meet
Anybody else is, at best, a potential mistress.
So is X your mistress? She is a potential mistress for those who find this log fascinating and resonate with its contents. However in my opinion she will not be your mistress until the following occurs
Getting a mistress is a process, not the use of a name. Most significantly, it involves your choosing to transfer control and to leave it transferred. It is a special relationship built from trust.
In the comment however, she had to call her self something, and Mistress X best identifies her and was the logical choice to use. People will decide for themselves the degree to which that name applies to their view of her.
If you want to refer to these wonderful hypnotists feel free to use or not use the Mistress term as you see fit. Call them simply X, B, and N, or call them Mistress X, Mistress B, and Mistress N as works best for you. Maybe you will use Mistress in honor of the effect they have had on me, maybe out of honor of the effect they could have on you, or maybe you are like me and cannot use that term casually. Do as you see best, you will not be dishonoring them by not using that term, unless, of course, they actually are your Mistresses.
Note: This write-up was later expanded in "Calling Somebody Mistress or Goddess"
Before I can call somebody "Mistress" two conditions have to be meet
- They must have had me surrendered and in their control
- They must have the ability and inclination to do it again
Anybody else is, at best, a potential mistress.
So is X your mistress? She is a potential mistress for those who find this log fascinating and resonate with its contents. However in my opinion she will not be your mistress until the following occurs
- You have made contact
- The chemistry is right and you proceed
- She hypnotizes you
- You learn to trust her (she will not suggest trust, that has to come on its own)
- You ask her to take control and she accepts
- You surrender to her control
- You are fulfilled by the experience, want it again, and agree to surrender again
- You develop a compulsion to surrender again
Getting a mistress is a process, not the use of a name. Most significantly, it involves your choosing to transfer control and to leave it transferred. It is a special relationship built from trust.
In the comment however, she had to call her self something, and Mistress X best identifies her and was the logical choice to use. People will decide for themselves the degree to which that name applies to their view of her.
If you want to refer to these wonderful hypnotists feel free to use or not use the Mistress term as you see fit. Call them simply X, B, and N, or call them Mistress X, Mistress B, and Mistress N as works best for you. Maybe you will use Mistress in honor of the effect they have had on me, maybe out of honor of the effect they could have on you, or maybe you are like me and cannot use that term casually. Do as you see best, you will not be dishonoring them by not using that term, unless, of course, they actually are your Mistresses.
Note: This write-up was later expanded in "Calling Somebody Mistress or Goddess"
1 Comments:
how can one submit to Mistress X's control? i ask this in all sincerity, having read through the oddyssey of the blogger. i to would like to follow this path. i can be reached on yahoo under ID of laotzu92.